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Australian men find solace in a shed
By PHIL MERCER
Sydney: Australia has come up with a novel weapon in the fight against high
rates of male suicide and depression – a variation on the humble shed.
The Men’s Shed movement is booming in disused warehouses and other suburban
buildings, which are being transformed into havens for mostly older men to
socialise.
At the last count there were 216 of them around the country and more are on
the way.
Perched in between native bushland and a busy railway line is the North
Sydney shed.
The former scouts’ hall is a fully equipped workshop. It hums with activity
and a fair dose of cheeky Aussie humour.
“We talk about all sorts of things – from cake recipes to sex – so we cover
a wide field,” supervisor John Marlin, a kind-hearted bear of a man who is
in his early 70s, said.
Supporters have insisted the workshops are a breakthrough in men’s health as
the informal atmosphere is encouraging them to talk more about their
problems – such as depression and loneliness.
“Until I found this place I didn’t realise how far I was going down,”
80-year-old Kevin Hardacre, who was busy making environmentally-sound bird
boxes, said.
“By being here you suddenly lift your mind up and you get better social
interaction. Life becomes more funny. Most members here are refugees from
something – refugees from their own fears and frustrations.”
On a warm spring’s day about a dozen “shedders” are hard at it.
This is a woodwork shed which produces toys and furniture and most things in
between. Other sheds specialise in metal work or run community programmes.
The mood among the North Sydney shedders is relaxed.
“They reckon Australian blokes don’t talk – but we do,” retired doctor Dick
O’Reilly said.
“We solve most of the world’s problems here. I just love this place and my
wife loves getting rid of me for the day,” explained the man affectionately
known as Dr Dick.
This egalitarian sanctuary has few rules and no joining fee.
There is the occasional dust-up, according to the shed’s community co-ordinator
Anthony Meggitt.
“Sure, at times there are ructions and disagreements about what someone is
doing and how it’s being done. But I think everybody in here gets
satisfaction from making a contribution and enjoying the interaction,” he
said.
The sheds receive government grants and help from local councils, voluntary
groups and churches. They can provide a vital link to the outside world for
older men, whose lives may have been blighted by bereavement, redundancy or
ill health.
“One of the sheds that I run, we have two men out of the 20 that come on a
daily basis that have been very, very close to suicide mainly through loss
of a spouse whom they may have nursed through an illness,” Ruth van Herk
from Uniting Care, a Christian charity, said.
“These are men who are incredibly depressed and frightened of their lives
and feel that there’s no meaning anymore. But they do find often a purpose
again because of these sheds.”
More than 2,000 Australians commit suicide on average every year – of them,
80% are men.
While the cosy surrounds of the shed are not a panacea for mental illness,
they do encourage men to open up.
Women are allowed into these male strongholds but they are not generally
encouraged to do so.
“At this point, as the name says, it’s a men’s shed,” supervisor John Marlin
said. “It’s agreed in the community that women are pretty well catered for.
“I don’t know that too many women would want to get in here and start
playing around with wood and hammers and nails and that sort of thing.”
Australia’s shed movement recently held its annual conference in – where
else? – the Sydney suburb of Manly. – BBC
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