Fight issues the Melanesian ways

THE 20 days of activism began on Friday with the convention of the rights of children (CRC) worldwide.
All partners in the fight against gender-based violence (GBV) will take to the streets to advocate on all forms of discrimination against human rights including HIV/Aids on Dec 1 and ending on Dec 10 with the International Disability Day.
In support for our mothers, sisters, wives, daughters, we in Melanesia have our unique ways to demonstrate our respect which should not be over-ridden by foreign culture.
Advocacy such as street demonstrations and loud noises are foreign to our culture. The messages these demonstrations have been advocating since my childhood days are not as far-reaching as our own Melanesian culture of being a man – a husband and father.
As Melanesian men, we have a duty to protect those who are vulnerable under our care, gather and provide for our homes but remain in our premises and let our spouses and daughters appreciate our presence, dominance, love and passion as true Melanesian husbands and fathers, rather than shooting ourselves in the foot on a public street pretending that we have not beaten up our wives or have not divorced our wedded wife.
Public figures such as parliamentarians who make so much noise on the subject of GBV should make sure they have not divorced their first wife or are not in polygamous relationship.
Men who are employed by the organisations leading these marches can participate since it’s a paid job, but for others, ask yourselves “are these demonstrations and organisers going to provide food on the table for your children each evening?”
We are Melanesians; protect and love your spouse and family within your premises, provide for your children, be kind to your neighbours and be humble in the community you live and serve.

Gerard Saleu